What to do if your parents' apartment is a mess? – Help, tips & solutions

What to do if your parents' apartment is a mess? – Help, tips & solutions

When you discover that your parents live in a cluttered or heavily soiled apartment, it is a big shock. But how do you deal with a so-called Messi apartment within the family?


⚠️ First signs of a Messi apartment

  • Excessive accumulation of things without order

  • Garbage or spoiled food is not disposed of

  • Strong odor nuisance

  • Restricted freedom of movement in the apartment

  • Withdrawal & shame when visiting


👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 How do I talk to my parents?

  • With Respect & Understanding: No accusations!

  • Don't confront it alone, better with a trusted person

  • Offer to helpinstead of condemning

  • Mental illnesses consider (e.g. hoarding syndrome)


🧹 What to do in case of acute littering?

  1. Discreet viewing by professionals

  2. Creation of a cleaning and clearing plan

  3. Cooperation with carers or authorities

  4. Have your apartment cleaned quickly and hygienically


💡 Important:

  • Never declutter alone – health risk!

  • Pest danger & mold often present

  • Consider legal protection for rental apartments


🧼 Help from specialist companies such as beste-messiwohnung.de

  • Discreet & fast clearance of hoarder apartments

  • No neighborhood attention

  • On request with disinfection, odor removal & pest control

  • Cooperation with relatives and legal guardians


📞 Get free advice now

We help you and your parents – sensitively and professionally:
📞 +4915563003959
📩 info@beste-messiwohnung.de

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